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Pattern Reset

A simple practice for the moment you realize: 

Oh shit. I'm doing it again.

You're not stuck. You're repeating.

Most of our automatic reactions were learned for a reason.

 

They became familiar ways of protecting ourselves, getting our needs met, staying connected, or making sense of what was happening around us.

The problem is that a pattern can keep running long after it’s stopped serving you.

You don’t have to completely understand it - or get rid of it - before you can begin choosing differently.

You just need to catch the moment when the pattern is trying to choose for you.

Welcome. I’m so glad you’re here. 💜

 

I created the Pattern Reset because knowing why we do something doesn’t always stop us from doing it.


 

Use the four steps whenever you catch yourself slipping into an old, familiar pattern.
 

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Want to keep this handy?

 

Save the Pattern Reset for the next time you catch yourself repeating a familiar response.

Seeing the pattern is the first step. Changing it is the next.

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The Pattern Reset helps you catch yourself when an old pattern takes over. The Autopilot Upgrade helps you understand what's driving it - and begin creating a different response.

I'll walk you through my four-step process with short videos, real-life examples, guided exercises, and audio practices designed to help you reinforce the new stories you're choosing.

It's the deeper work I do with women all the time, made simple enough to use in the moments you find yourself thinking, Why am I doing this again?

Ready to start changing what happens next?

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